“[X] is so intimidating.”
“…Dude, you know the new mothers who work here will leave their babies with [X] for a day or two while they get integrated back into the workforce? Because the daycare is slow about accepting applications and [X] is apparently willing to babysit endlessly for people xe barely knows?”
“…I don’t see it.”
“Right? Anyway, spend more than five minutes with xir and xe stops being intimidating, mostly because someone will hand xir a baby.”